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WHO IS THE BAD PERSON?

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 Everyday is a struggle for survival, everyone is hustling for a space on the table. In a ploy to get ahead we are willing to destroy whatever obstacle is on the way without minding whose ox is gored.

Human to human relationships is one of the most difficult because everyone acts from their perspective and personal beliefs ( most times it's against others)


Everyone thinks they're not the problem,

They probably deserve a good friend. We are quick to point a finger at a supposed bad ship without looking inwards.

What if you ain't shit?

What if you are a bad person?

What would you do if you are in a similar position to what you judge? Would you handle it differently 


Everyone has a wicked ex, a back biting friend, a stingy and proud friend, a bad advisor, a sad friend, a trouble making friend, a cheating friend.

I can go on and on and on!

If everyone is pointing fingers, who then is guilty?


Hypocrisy is such a bad card!

When we are faced with the difficult situation, there is a consensus agreement that kind people are rare, 

good women are scarce,

 good husbands are scarce, 

So if there are limited good people with moral values and virtues, why is no one admitting to fucking up a good thing?


I killed to earn a living ( survival instinct)

I snitch to get a favor ( they will probably do the same to me)

I slept with his boyfriend ( someone else did with mine)

I broke her heart ( that's the only way to heal)

We always have reasons to justify our acts and decisions.


The blame game is sickening and it's probably due to lack of accountability on our part.

If you take out time to think , you will definitely see your flaws. Why is it difficult to accept especially in public?

Identify your strengths and weaknesses 

Seek people's honest opinion about you.

It's okay to ask someone what they honestly think about you?


Change is constant and accountability is key.

Maybe you need to stop pointing fingers,

Wha

t if you are really a bad person?

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